Bye toxic

I finally told my husband that I think his family is toxic. He agreed, but I know he will be sad as well. I would be sad too if I was in his position. I am not saying that my family is perfect, but I think it is important that we face the reality. We will try to focus more on us, and build a simple and happy life together. 

Just things

It is confirmed that I will attend stress management on Tuesdays and community meeting on Wednesdays. I am still waiting for Mandy to tell me whether Friday pottery session is confirmed. I also told my husband that I want to eat at places without service charge, and he is supportive of that. I think service charge only allows rich companies to earn even more. I also don't really get any service when eating at these places. 

28/3/2026

I finally told Mandy that I actually don't like culinary class. I might be attending community meeting instead, but she is still checking and will update me soon. I hope I will be able to start work soon. I am still trying to learn that I can live my life the way I want it. I don't need to be good enough for others, and caring too much about what people think of me will only make me suffer. I just want a simple life with my husband, I don't need a lot of money, I just don't want too much stress in my life. Like my husband said, I need to learn to be stronger and ignore the opinions of others. 

27 Mar 2026 Food diary

- Nuggets

- Wonton noodles 

- Soya milk

- Caifan 

- Drumlets 

- 3 in 1 coffee 

26 Mar 2026 Food diary

Breakfast: 

- scrambled eggs

- 3 in 1 coffee 

Lunch: 

- Wonton noodles 

- OCK fried chicken

- peanut mee jian kueh

-Iced coffee 

Dinner: 

- Tonkotsu ramen